How to Train Your Dog to Stay Calm Around Other Dogs

Today, I’m excited to share some valuable tips. They address a common challenge many of us face: teaching our dogs to stay calm around other dogs. This skill makes walks better. It also improves your dog’s social interactions and behavior. Let’s dive into the world of calm canine encounters!

​The Challenge

You’re out for a serene walk with your dog. The sun is shining, birds are chirping, and everything seems perfect. Suddenly, another dog appears in the distance. Your dog's ears perk up, his body tenses, and before you know it, they're barking and pulling on the leash. Your peaceful walk has turned into a chaotic struggle. Sound familiar? You’re not alone. Many dog owners have this problem. But, the good news is that with patience and training, we can teach our dogs to stay calm around other dogs.

Understanding the Behavior

Dogs are social animals, and it’s natural for them to feel excited or anxious when they see another dog. However, this excitement or anxiety can lead to unwanted behaviors. These include barking, lunging, and even aggression. To help our dogs stay calm, we need to understand what’s driving their behavior and work on managing it.

​The Importance of Calm Interactions

Teaching your dog to stay calm around other dogs has numerous benefits. It makes walks safer and more fun. It reduces stress for you and your dog. And, it makes social interactions better. A calm dog is a joy to walk and socialize with. Training can greatly strengthen the bond between you and your furry friend.

​Start with the Basics

First, we must cover the basics. You need a good foundation in obedience training. Commands like “sit,” “stay,” “leave it,” and “watch me” are key tools. They are for managing your dog’s behavior around other dogs. If your dog hasn’t mastered these commands yet, start there. Consistent training sessions use rewards. They will lay the groundwork for more advanced changes.

Step-by-Step Guide to Calm Interactions

Step 1: Desensitization and Counter-Conditioning

Desensitization involves slowly exposing your dog to the trigger. In this case, the trigger is other dogs. You expose them at a distance where they can stay calm. Counter-conditioning pairs this exposure with something good. It might be treats or praise. This process changes your dog’s emotional response.

Example: Take your dog to a quiet park where there are few dogs. Start at a distance where he notices other dogs but doesn’t react. Reward him with treats and praise for staying calm. Gradually decrease the distance over several sessions, always rewarding calm behavior.

Step 2: Teaching “Watch Me”

“Watch me” is a command that focuses your dog’s attention on you instead of the trigger. It’s particularly useful when you see another dog approaching and need to keep your dog calm.

Example: Hold a treat close to your face and say, “Watch me.” When your dog makes eye contact, reward them with the treat. Practice this command in many places. Gradually add distractions, like distant dogs.

Step 3: Controlled Exposure

Controlled exposure involves practicing calm interactions with other dogs in a controlled setting. This can be done with the help of a friend’s dog or at a training class.

Example: Arrange a training session with a friend who has a calm dog. Keep both dogs on leashes and at a safe distance. Gradually decrease the distance while rewarding calm behavior. If either dog becomes too excited or anxious, increase the distance and try again.

​Step 4: Teaching “Leave It”

"Leave it" is a key command. It helps manage your dog’s focus and stop bad interactions. It teaches your dog to ignore distractions, including other dogs.

Example: Start with a treat in your hand. When your dog tries to sniff or grab it, say, “Leave it,” and close your hand. When he stops trying, reward him with a different treat. Practice this command with distractions. Gradually, include other dogs far away.

​Step 5: Positive Reinforcement
Positive reinforcement is the most effective way to encourage good behavior. When your dog remains calm around other dogs, reward them with treats, praise, or a favorite toy. The goal is to make calm behavior more rewarding than reacting to other dogs.

​Common Challenges and Solutions

Challenge: My Dog Gets Too Excited

If your dog gets overly excited around other dogs, take a step back and reduce the level of exposure. Practice desensitization from a greater distance. Then, decrease it as your dog becomes more comfortable. Use high-value treats that your dog loves to keep their focus.

Challenge: My Dog is Fearful or Aggressive

If your dog is afraid of or aggressive towards other dogs, you must address the underlying emotional issues. Consult with a professional dog trainer or behaviorist to develop a tailored training plan. Avoid situations that trigger fear or aggression until your dog is more comfortable.

​Training your dog to stay calm around other dogs is like building a bridge. It starts with a solid foundation of trust and basic commands. Each training session adds another plank, gradually connecting both sides. Over time, the bridge becomes sturdy and reliable. It lets you and your dog cross from reactive to calm behavior.

​Final Thoughts

Training your dog to stay calm around other dogs is a journey. It requires patience, consistency, and rewards. By understanding your dog’s behavior. You can manage their environment and practice desensitization. This will help your dog develop appropriate social behaviors. The rewards are worth the effort. They result in a well-behaved dog, relaxed walks, and a closer bond with your furry friend.

At Clever Canine Dog Training, we’re here to support you every step of the way. If you’re struggling with your dog’s behavior or need personalized guidance, don’t hesitate to reach out. Together, we can transform your dog into a calm and well-mannered companion.

Happy training!

Mandy Majchrzak
Owner and Head Trainer
Clever Canine Dog Training